#1 Love
It’s always about love and its pain or its glory. Let me say
that falling in love is easy. You just look at a person, think of him as
attractive, get to know him on the surface and fall in love. You feel the glory
of love, like whenever he looks at you, you feel the butterfly in your stomach,
whenever he accidentally touches you, you blush. But then it doesn’t stop until
that. You want the other one to love you back, you want a relationship. The
only problem is relationship demands reciprocity. When it doesn’t, you get
hurt. Like Miss Swift said, everything that falls, will broke. Broken hearted
brings pain.
#2 Friendship
I don’t hate the fact that half of my best buddies were boys
because females often love dramas. Moreover I loveee to be free and I hope I can
go and have fun like forever! But female friends are so worried about how their
family and other people will think about them if they go home late (we’re
Asians and what people think is always number one... Duh), etc. Plus most of my
female friends don’t have their own transportation, so am I. So there it is.
Our friendship always has a limit based on “what people say” and curfew.
On the other hand, males have their own transportation and don’t
have to be worried if they go home even at midnight. The problem with the different
gender friendship is problem #2. Too close could possibly bring a trouble
either for you or for him.
If you have a feeling for a man, you would not want him to
ignore any of your messages. And also that means that if your best-different-gender-friend
(who you would never want to hurt) unluckily has a feeling for you, you would
feel guilty when ignoring his/her message because you know how it hurts to be
ignored. Got it?
#3 Why I never want to grow up
They say (again, Asians… ) that I am not that young anymore
and I should get married before I reach 30. Not that I don’t want that, but
that’s just scary! We went to school for years and then we work, collect some
money and are told to get married. Hey neither of school and work prepares us
to get married! Plus is that all why you need to work so hard? To spend all
your money and pay all the family bills? And what about all the responsibility
they put on your shoulder? Like have children and raise them. Should life go on
a circle from born as a baby, go to school, work, get married, have a baby,
repeat from the beginning? Well I’m sorry if I prefer not to grow up.
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